I came from a food happy family. Growing up in the sixties it was a mandate from God to eat everything on our plate. And that's what we did, we ate. Food defined our family holiday meals, our celebrations, our religious functions. And amongst the family and friends, there were fat, skinny and in between. And there were never any insults. And few health problems related to our diets. So, shame on your Grandma. Be the person you want to be. Regardless of the body you've been given. Next life around, you can request a different one.