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I Resolve Not to Relive 1972 Anymore

But the flashbacks are real

Lee J. Bentch
3 min readDec 31, 2022
Photo by Vasilios Muselimis on Unsplash

It's been a week of conversations about New Year's resolutions. And the reality is the conversations drive me nuts.

I was asked, "What are you going to do on New Year's Eve, and what are your resolutions?"

My answers are always the same.

I'm going to eat a nice dinner, have a glass or two of champagne, find a good movie on Netflix and settle in around 10 pm.

The thought of bar hopping gives me indigestion, especially on Saturday night, and more so on Saturday night when it's a celebratory holiday.

I'm still a little Covid paranoid and have no desire to spend a few hours standing shoulder to shoulder with 300 strangers while trying to get a waitress or bartender's attention.

Regarding resolutions. It's the same song year after year. I either improve, stop doing some things or resolve to think about trying new stuff. But those are all very personal. And since I'm a widower in my late sixties, I'm going to dam well do what I want. It's part of the Seniors Handbook on aging.

The chapter on widowhood and youthful aging clearly states:

As you age, feel free to live life on your own terms as long what you do is legal, ethical and moral.

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Lee J. Bentch
Lee J. Bentch

Written by Lee J. Bentch

I am an author, a technology guy, a grandad, a widower, and a man with many interests. I write to inform and entertain. Email: lee@lbentch.com

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